5 Tips to Patch up with your Girlfriend
The ending of any relationship can be very difficult. Yet, it is completely in your hands to give the ending relationship one last try. Specifically, when it comes to relationships where the love is still alive, it is all worth it to try the patch-up, if possible.
We understand there can be many reasons for relationships to end. On the contrary, you need just one more reason for the relationship to survive.
In this article, we shall explore 5 proven methods that can get back your love. All you need to do while reading this is to understand from the perspective of your lover. It can do wonders.
1. Stop taking the relationship like a murder:
And stop playing the victim of it! Yes, you have understood it right. As much as you have invested time into it, so has your beloved. If you want to make yourself attractive to the person, learn to pretend to move on. Cutting the connection off from her for a few days can be helpful too. Start posting bright pictures of happiness and enjoyment over social media.
2. Time to level up:
You must make your ex believe that they are missing something from their life. No one wants to get back to a person, if they don’t provide any value to them, anymore. Grow your worth. You can either start working on your physique, take up a new hobby seriously, or start learning a new skill.
3. Post good:
Social Media is the ultimate source of rich attention. It becomes highly important that you post your pics with the best attire on. Say goodbye to those lousy pictures, if you want to leave a lasting impact. Gear up well, groom yourself and make your presence felt, every time you post a picture online.
Guess what: Every time you go outside your home, make sure you look the best you! You never know, when you can collide with the significant other!
4. Be approachable:
This is one of the most winning things you can do. Often, you do all of the above 3 steps, but your ego stops you from doing the 4th one. Here is the real deal-breaker! You have to be approachable by the other person. Be it in person, or over digital media, it becomes very important to show that you are normal, when a conversation begins between the two. Let us not forget that only if you remain approachable, you increase your chances of having them back.
5. Don’t send back the presents:
Well, it makes sense! If you have admired someone and wish to have them in your life again, the best way to let them know is this! What most people do wrong is they send the presents and gifts being shared by each other. Instead, do this small thing.
Write a small note to the significant other about why you are not sending the gifts given by them, back! Try to remind them about the wonderful memories associated with them. This can in-turn make them understand that you still value that person.
And, who doesn’t want to be with someone, who respects and values them?!